It’s a sociologist’s brilliant, brutal dream to witness societal shifts of this magnitude; we see the good, the bad and the ugly, unfiltered.
Scene Report: Here in my City by the Sea our public space is the beach, the boardwalk, the boulevard. Our younger neighbors have already organized “Neighbors Helping Neighbors” brigades to help the elderly and at risk. People buy extra supplies for those who can’t get out, community steps in where society fails. Kids are home schooled, many parents here are school teachers so everyone is off from work and life continues. Hockey games, bikes, dogs, skateboarding, surfing….happy kids make happy days.
Last week, the local recovery community organized daily beach meetings drawing clean and sober addicts and alcoholics to our barrier island from across the South Shore. We have online phone in meetings and stay connected because isolating is dangerous for us, it tempts the demons.
I spend most days outside, walking through the canals, dancing on the dock to pump up my breathing capacity, strolling the boardwalk, sending friends air kisses and elbow hugs from a distance of six feet, working in the yard. We’re finishing up home repairs we’ve put off for years, Raymond is putting in a new carpet in the laundry room, I’m talking with my students across the state, trying to integrate curricula into the sociohistoric moment, baking chocolate chip banana bread and ordering seeds for the vegetable garden.
Raymond and I celebrated our 42nd anniversary yesterday, at home. Now planning our Aries birthdays, ordering in gifts and food. Writing, meditation, music and art continue, as time slows.
The hardest part of this is the fear. I’m in a double risk pool, an elder with respiratory and immunodeficiency challenges that have kept me chronically ill since Hurricane Sandy. Then, as now, the power of human community protects and buffers the individual. The saddest part is when my sweet little neighbor kids, beloved children who know me as Aunt Donna, run up to hug me and I have to back away.
Stay safe, stay well, stay free, my friends.